Thursday, September 04, 2008

Buka Puasa Do

This is only the first week of the Ramadhan and although one comes across so many "Buka Puasa Specials" advertised in the dailies and other print as well as electronic media, I am yet to see how the crowd goes this year. Tomorrow I am making a reservation for that " Ramadhan Special" at one of the outlets not far from my house, for all my sons and their families ( except for Haniff who's now back in Cork, Ireland ) Nasimah, Nurul and I. I made an early reservation so that there's a space for us because of it's limited capacity. Most important there's a Surau sited just outside the shopping centre, next to a food court, so that we would be able to perform the Maghrib prayer. In the past from what I saw, people would fill up their plates and be ready with their dates and drinks just before the time to break fast. And once the Adhan is sounded, you could see how quickly they gulp down their drinks and start eating whatever had been put on their plates. Sometimes I just wonder how commercialised the Ramadhan had been made into, by the offerings from scores of eateries and restaurants of 5-star Hotels which is mildly speaking mind boggling. I have no qualms about the array of spread being lined up for the "Buka Puasa" but what is most galling is the wastage. I have seen so many plates with unfinished food left on the tables and I am sure it would be thrown away as leftovers, whereas the Blessed month of Ramadhan is training the Believers to be modest and restrained in everything they consumed so that could not be regarded as "Membazir". Although it's their money and their choice whether to be a glutton or not, one must not lose sight of the significance of the true meaning of fasting in the Blessed month of Ramadhan. It's significance lies in the " Taqwa " which should be the objective and how could one achieve it by being wasteful and inconsiderate as every plate of rice and whatever goes with it is a blessing from ALLAH S.W.T. and should one be grateful for HIS Bounty, it should not be wasted unwittingly. One must be conscious that not all are so fortunate as to "Buka Puasa" in 5-star hotels and other eateries, and how would a beggar feel that unwonted waste could have been his food for the whole week! This "Buka Puasa Do" have reached it's climax already, because of the economic gloom that will befall many who relied on others to survive. Perhaps I might be wrong to say that for this year, the fashionable " Buka Puasa Buffet " is not so rampant as the previous years, or it's just a mirage on my part! So to those of you contemplating to reserve a table for the " Buka Puasa " there's plenty of choice and probably you could have " double rations " due to the glut in the market for those who have money still to spare, before the curtains are down and I wish everyone who reads this posting, Wa Sahlan Ramadhan Al-Mubarak!

6 comments:

kaykuala said...

Dear Hal,
Buka Puasa buffet may mean a missed maghrib(u had the foresight of having one with a surau nearby)or most likely a missed terawikh. Even with a paryer room at a 5 star hotel from my observation before only a handful will go for maghrib.
The Tilawah Al-Quran was at one time done during the fasting month but has now been brought forward to be done before Ramadhan. So there is no missing of terawikh
This may have been done for political reasons, but it is not important.
I wonder if Ramadhan buffet might go the same way, meaning a ban. The eateries can have whatever offerings but it is not to be labelled as such.I just wonder!

abdulhalimshah said...

Hank,
Nowadays people doesn't seem bothered about whether they are going to miss a prayer or terawikh when they see the crowd doing the same.
2. The obligatory prayer must be performed whatever the excuse maybe, even in battle as Rasulullah (S.A.W.)had shown to all mankind. The terawikh can be done on your own when you are back home.
3. The ban will only backfire, because it goes to show that one had easily succumbed to temptation in the Blessed month of Ramadhan where it's aimed at purifying the body, mind and soul!

Bustaman said...

Nothing like "buka puasa" with the whole family (wherever and whatever).
People do waste food at buffets even though they are not in Ramadhan. Some establishments imposed a penalty on wasted food. I think our puasa marks are deducted too!

abdulhalimshah said...

Pokku,
You are hitting the nail right on the head! It's the family togetherness that's evoked when they break their fast around the table, and not just the food, it's actually secondary.

Husni aka Tuni said...

Well, Nando's was a treat nonetheless. Thanks Abah.

CZZ said...

Assalamualaikum Uncle..

Yeah Nando's is nice sekali sekala..

Ramadhan buffets are seriously overpriced and beats the sole purpose of moderation and what we as Muslims are supposed to observe in this holy month..

How is your father Uncle? Hope he is recovering well..

Salam to Aunty. Tell her I'm using the telekung she gave me for Terawikh :)

Wassalam